水湄居

还没反应过来，最好的年华已经逝去，“身心妇女化”了；
更可悲的是，即使在最好的年华，也没有真正地美丽过、真正的爱过。
还没反应过来，憧憬和激情都已黯淡，越来越麻木枯竭；
更可悲的是，即使在激情四溢的年代，也不曾拥有改变自己的毅力。
还没反应过来，能静静独处的时间越来越少了，或许要到几十年后才能再拥有；
而更可悲的是，即使有直面自己的时间机会，自欺欺人的次数实在太多了。

最初是被给儿子买的动画片《公主和青蛙》中的配乐彻底折服
加上整理Friends的插曲，翻出了很多70’80年代的英文歌
大开眼界
那个年代的中国，音乐毫无疑问是一元的
当然，自古以来我国就没有交响乐，可悠扬婉转、无法大气磅礴
但至少，一直可以尽情直抒胸臆、如韩红般声耸入云地歌唱、歌出空灵的清澈的如天穹长风般的声音，也可以轻吟浅唱、如王菲般率性自我地歌唱、轻歌慢摇那些令人迷惘感伤而轻颤的声音。
只有那个时段，不可能。那叫靡靡之音
85年，George Michael 率Wham！北京开演唱会。改革开放已经七八年了，经济恢复程度相当可观，但对思想的禁锢却不是几年间可以扭转的。可以想象，即使再多热情的fans，仍难免尴尬的场面。事实上，20年来，音乐潮流在变我在变GM也在变，却始终觉得，他是值得跟随20年的
重听崔健的新长征路上的摇滚，羡慕北京可以那么早接触全世界的音乐

9、S02E04 The One With Phoebe’s Husband
Ross danced in the street, the morning after sleeping with Julie, with extraordinary joy.
Song：Singing in the Rain Singer：Gene Kelly Album：Singing in the Rain

I’m singing in the rain
Just singing in the rain,
What a glorious feeling,
and I’m happy again.
I’m laughing at clouds
so dark, up above,
The sun’s in my heart
and I’m ready for love.
Let the stormy clouds chase.
everyone from the place
Come on with the rain
I have a smile on my face.
I’ll walk down the lane
with a happy refrain
Just singing, singing in the rain.

Dancing in the rain.

I’m happy again.

I’m singing and dancing in the rain.

I’m dancing and singing in the rain
10、S02E05 The One With Five Steaks and an Eggplant
Monica,Chandler and Ross went to the concert without other three, the concert is Hootie & The Blowfish exactly.
Song：I Go Blind Singer：Hootie & The Blowfish Album：Best of H&B 1993-2003

Every time I look at you, I go blind.
Every time I look at you, I go blind.
Every time I look at you, I go blind.
Every time I look at you, I go blind.

In the mornin’ I get up,
and I try to feel alive, but I can’t.
Every time I look at you, I go blind.
I don’t know what it is.
Something in me just won’t give me a chance.
I think it’s that I feel more confused
By the deal love has shown me.

Little child, did you know that there’s a light,
And it’s gonna shine right through your eyes.
What do you think that life is like?
Every time I look at you, I go blind.
I go blind

Well some where over there there’s a purpose,
There’s a care for free
In me there’s no body, no one plan,
No one stand to be free.

I think it’s that because I have seen all the fuss
And it’s no big deal. No big deal.
Hold me, hold me ’cause I want to get higher and higher,
Higher than life
Hold me, hold me ’cause I want to get higher and higher,
Higher than life
Every time I look at you
Hold me, hold me ’cause I want to get higher and higher,
Higher than life
Every time I look at you
Hold me, hold me ’cause I want to get higher and higher,
Higher than life

11、S02E06 The One With The Baby on the Bus
A perfectional musician was payed to sing in Central Perk, so that Pheobe played guitar outside.
Song：Angel of the morning Singer：Chrissie Hynde Album：The Pretenders

There’ll be no strings to bind your hands
not if my love can’t bind your heart
And there’s no need to take a stand
for it was I who chose to start
I see no reason to take me home
I’m old enough to face the dawn
Just call me angel of the morning ANGEL
Just touch my cheek before you leave me, baby
Just call me angel of the morning ANGEL
Then slowly turn away
I won’t beg you to stay
with me

Maybe the sun’s light will be dim
and it won’t matter anyhow
If morning’s echo says we’ve sinned
well, it was what I wanted now
And if we’re the victims of the night
I won’t be blinded by the light
Just call me angel of the morning ANGEL
Just touch my cheek before you leave me, baby
Just call me angel of the morning ANGEL
Then slowly turn away
I won’t beg you to stay
with me

Through the tears
of the pain
of the years
Baby baby Baby baby
Just call me angel of the morning ANGEL
Just touch my cheek before you leave me, oh baby
Just call me angel of the morning ANGEL
Just touch my cheek before you leave me, Baby baby oh baby
12、S02E07 The One With Ross Finds Out
Monica and Chandler went for a run, in order to keep fit.
Song：Macho Man Singer：Village People Album：Macho Man

Body…wanna feel my body? Body…such a thrill my body Body…wanna touch my body?
Body…it’s too much my body Check it out my body, body. Don’t you doubt my body, body.
talkin’ bout my body, body, Check it out my body
Every man wants to be a macho macho man
to have the kind of body, always in demand
Jogging in the mornings, go man go
works out in the health spa, muscles glow
You can best believe that, he’s a macho man
ready to get down with, anyone he can
Hey! Hey! Hey, hey, hey! Macho, macho man (macho man)
I’ve got to be, a macho man Macho, macho man I’ve got to be a macho! Ow….
Macho, macho man I’ve got to be, a macho man
Macho, macho man (yeah, yeah) I’ve got to be a macho!
Body, its so hot, my body, Body, love to pop my body,
Body, love to please my body, Body, don’t you tease my body,
Body, you’ll adore my body, Body, come explore my body,
Body, made by God, my body, Body, it’s so good, my body
You can tell a macho, he has a funky walk
his western shirts and leather, always look so boss
Funky with his body, he’s a king
call him Mister Eagle, dig his chains
You can best believe that, he’s a macho man
likes to be the leader, he never dresses grand
Ugh! Macho..baby! Body, body, body wanna feel my body, Body, gonna thrill my body,
Body, body, body don’tcha stop my body, Body, body, body it’s so hot my body,
Every man ought to be a macho macho man,
To live a life of freedom, machos make a stand,
Have their own life style and ideals,
Possess the strength and confidence, life’s a steal,
You can best believe that he’s a macho man
He’s a special person in anybody’s land.
Hey! Hey! Hey, hey, hey! Macho, macho man (macho man)
I’ve got to be, a macho man Macho, macho man
I’ve got to be a macho! (dig the hair on my chest)
13、S02E08 The One With The List
Ross requested this song on the radio to Rachel.
Song：With or Without You Singer：U2 Album：The Joshua Tree

See the stone set in your eyes
See the thorn twist in your side
I wait for you

Sleight of hand and twist of fate
On a bed of nails she makes me wait
And I wait….without you
With or without you
With or without you

Through the storm we reach the shore
You give it all but I want more
And I’m waiting for you

With or without you
With or without you
I can’t live
With or without you

And you give yourself away
And you give yourself away
And you give
And you give
And you give yourself away

My hands are tied
My body bruised, she’s got me with
Nothing win
And nothing left to lose

With or without you
With or without you
I can’t live
With or without you
14、S02E08 The One With The List
When Ross requested a song on the radio, played after “With or Without You”.
Song：In My Room Singer：Grant Lee Buffalo Album：Friends soundtrack 1995

There’s a room where I can go and
Tell my secrets to
In my room
In my room (In my room)

In this world I lock out all my
Worries and my fears
In my room
In my room (in my room)

Do my dreaming and my scheming
Lie awake and pray
Do my crying and my sighing
Laugh at yesterday

Now it’s dark and I’m alone and
I won’t be afraid
In my room
In my room (in my room)
In my room (in my room)
In my room (in my room)
In my room (in my room)
In my room (in my room)
In my room (in my room)
In my room (in my room)

See the stone set in your eyes
Feel the thorn twist in your side
I wait for you
15、S02E11 The One With The Lesbian Wedding
Ross danced with Susan in “Carol & Susan’s Wedding”.
Song：Strangers in the night Singer：Grant Lee Buffalo Album：New York, New York

Strangers in the night
Exchanging glances
Wondering in the night
What were the chances
We’d be sharing love
Before the night was through

Something in your eyes
Was so inviting
Something in your smile
Was so exciting
Something in my heart
Told me I must have you

Strangers in the night
Two lonely people we were
Strangers in the night
Up to the moment when we
Said our first hello
Little did we know
Love was just a glance away
A warm embracing dance away
And ever since that night
We’ve been together
Lovers at first sight
In love forever
It turned out so right
For strangers in the night.

Love was just a glance away
A warm embracing dance away
And ever since that night
We’ve been together
Lovers at first sight
In love forever
It turned out so right
For strangers in the night.
16、S02E13 The One After the Superbowl, part 2
Ross spent his last day with Marcel, they found it difficult to tear apart.
Song：Looks Like We Made It Singer：Barry Manilow Album：Ultimate Manilow

There you are, lookin’ just the same as you did, last time I touched you.
And, here I am, close to gettin’ tangled up inside the thought of you.
Do you love him , as much as I love her.
And will that love be strong, when old feelings start to stir.

Looks like we made it,
Left each other on the way, to another love.
Looks like we made it, or I thought so, till today,
Until you were there everywhere.
And all I could taste was love, the way we made it.

Love’s so strange, playin’ hide and seek, with hearts, and always hurtin’.
And we’re the fools, standin’ close enough to touch those burnin’ memories.
And if I hold you, for the sake of all those times.
Love made us lose our minds.
Could I ever let you go?

Oh, no…we made it,
Left each other on the way, to another love.
Looks like we made it, or I thought so, till today,
Until you were there everywhere.
and all I could taste was love,
The way we made it.

Looks like we made it,
Left each other on the way, to another love.
Looks like we made it,
Or I thought so, till today,
Until you were there everywhere.
And all I could taste was love,
The way we made it.
Looks like we made it.
17、S02E15 The One Where Ross & Rachel… You Know
In the museum when Ross & Rachel..you know, Ross turned on a slide of starry sky on the ceiling.
Song：Wicked Game Singer：Chris Isaak Album：Heart Shaped World

The world was on fire and no one could save me but you
It’s strange what desire will make foolish people do
I never dreamed that I’d meet somebody like you
I never dreamed that I’d knew somebody like you

And I don’t wanna fall in love
No, I don’t wanna fall in love
With you

What a wicked game you played to make me feel this way
What a wicked thing to do to let me dream of you
What a wicked thing to say you never felt this way
What a wicked thing to do to make me dream of you

And I don’t wanna fall in love
No I don’t wanna fall in love
With you

The world was on fire and no one could save me but you
It’s strange what desire will make foolish people do
I never dreamed that I’d love somebody like you
I never dreamed that I’d lose somebody like you

No, I don’t wanna fall in love
No, I don’t wanna fall in love
With you

No, I……

Nobody else loves no one
18、S02E17 The One Where Eddie Moves In
Joey moved out for his growth as he believed, but in no time he and Chandler missed each other so much that they felt lonely all the time.
Song：All By Myself Singer：Eric Carmen Album：Heart Shaped World

When I was young , I never needed anyone
And making love was just for fun
Those days are gone
Livin’ alone , I think of all the friends I’ve known
When I dial the telephone , Nobody’s home
All by myself
Don’t wanna be , All by myself , Anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna live, All by myself , Anymore
Hard to be sure , Sometimes I feel so insecure
And loves so distant and obscure , Remains the cure
All by myself
Don’t wanna be , All by myself , Anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna live, All by myself , Anymore
When I was young , I never needed anyone
And making love was just for fun
Those days are gone
All by myself
Don’t wanna be , All by myself , Anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna live, All by myself , Anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna be , All by myself , Anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna live, All by myself , Anymore
All by myself
19、S02E21 The One With the Two Bullies
At the end of this episode, Monica and her colleagues danced in front of their customers.
Song：Y.M.C.A. Singer：The Village People Album：The Best of Village People

Young man there’s no need to feel down
I said young man pick yourself off the ground
I said young man cause you’re in a new town
There’s no need to be unhappy
Young man there’s a place you can go
I said young man when you’re short on your dough
You can stay there and I’m sure you will find
Many ways to have a good time
It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A. It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A.
They have everything for you men to enjoy . You can hang out with all the boys
It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A. It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A.
You can get yourself cleaned you can have a good meal . You can do whatever you feel
Young man, are you listening to me
I said young man what do you want to be
I said young man you can make real your dreams
But you got to know this one thing
No man does it all by himself
I said young man put your pride on the shelf
And just go there to the Y.M.C.A.
I’m sure they can help you today
It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A. It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A.
They have everything for you men to enjoy . You can hang out with all the boys
It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A. It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A.
You can get yourself cleaned, you can have a good meal , You can do whatever you feel …
Young man, I was once in your shoes.
I said, I was down and out with the blues.
I felt no man cared if I were alive.
I felt the whole world was so tight …
That’s when someone came up to me,
And said, young man, take a walk up the street.
There’s a place there called the Y.M.C.A.
They can start you back on your way.
It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A. It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A.
They have everything for you men to enjoy . You can hang out with all the boys
It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A. It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A.
Young man, Young man there’s no need to feel down
Young man, young man pick yourself off the ground
20、S02E22 The One With the Two Parties
There were two parties, of course, there were many songs.

Song：Shoe Box Singer：Barenaked Ladies

Song：Sexuality Singer：K.D. Lang

Song：Big Yellow Taxi Singer：Joni Mitchell (Traffic Jam Mix)

Song：It’s a Free World Baby Singer：R.E.M.

Song：Good Intentions Singer：Toad the Wet Sprocket

Song：Stain Yer Blood Singer：Paul Westerberg
21、S02E24 The One With Barry & Mindy’s Wedding
At Barry & Mindy’s wedding , Monica made a decide that she had to have kids and led to a broke up with Richard.
Song：The Girl from Ipanema Singer：Olivia Ong Album：

Tall and tan and young and lovely
The girl from Ipanema goes walking
And when she passes each one she passes goes Ah…
When she walks she’s like a samba that
Swings so cool and sway so gently
That when she passes each one she passes goes Woo…

Oh , But I watch her so sadly
How can I tell her he loves her?
Yes , I would give my heart gladly
But each day when she walks to the sea
She looks straight ahead not at me

Tall and tan and young and lovely
The girl from Ipanema goes walking
And when she passes I smiles
But she doesn’t see
Doesn’t see

Oh But I watch her so sadly
How can I tell her I loves her
Yes I would give my heart gladly
But each day when she walks to the sea
She looks straight ahead not me

Tall and tan and young and lovely
The girl from Ipanema goes walking
And when she passes I smiles
But she doesn’t see
She just doesn’t see
She never sees me

22、S02E24 The One With Barry & Mindy’s Wedding
At Barry & Mindy’s wedding , Rachel sang in the reception.
Song：Copa-Cabana Singer：Barry Manilow Album：Ultimate Manilow

Her name was Lola , She was a showgirl
With yellow feathers in her hair , And a dress cut down to there
She would Merengue , And do the Cha-Cha
And, while she tried to be a star
Tony always tended bar
Across the crowded floor , They worked from eight to four
They were young and they had each other , Who could ask for more?

At the Copa, Copacabana , The hottest spot north of Havana
At the Copa, Copacabana , Music and passion
Were always the fashion , At the Copa
They fell in love

His name was Rico , He wore a diamond
He was escorted to his chair , He saw Lola dancing there
And, when she finished , He called her over
But Rico went a bit too far , Tony sailed across the bar
And, then, the punches flew , And chairs were smashed in two
There was blood and a single gunshot , But just who shot who?

At the Copa, Copacabana , The hottest spot north of Havana
At the Copa, Copacabana , Music and passion
Were always the fashion , At the Copa
She lost her love

Her name is Lola , She was a showgirl
But that was thirty years ago , When they used to have a show
Now, it’s a Disco , But not for Lola
Still in the dress she used to wear , Faded feathers in her hair
She sits there, so refined , And drinks herself half blind
She lost her youth and she lost her Tony , Now, she’s lost her mind!

At the Copa, Copacabana , The hottest spot north of Havana
At the Copa, Copacabana , Music and passion
Were always the fashion , At the Copa
Don’t fall in love
Don’t fall in love

0、I’ll Be There For You
The Theme Song, as we all know.
Song：I’ll Be There For You Singer：The Rembrandts Album：Friends

So no one told you life was gonna be this way
Your job’s a joke, you’re broke, your love life’s D.O.A.
It’s like you’re always stuck in second gear
When it hasn’t been your day, your week, your month, or even your year
but I’ll be there for you
(When the rain starts to pour)
I’ll be there for you
(Like I’ve been there before)
I’ll be there for you
(‘Cause you’re there for me too)

You’re still in bed at ten and work began at eight
You’ve burned your breakfast, so far, things are going great
Your mother warned you there’d be days like these
But she didn’t tell you when the world has brought you down to your knees
but I’ll be there for you
(When the rain starts to pour)
I’ll be there for you
(Like I’ve been there before)
I’ll be there for you
(‘Cause you’re there for me too)

No one could ever know me
No one could ever see me
Seems you’re the only one who knows what it’s like to be me
Someone to face the day with, make it through all the rest with
Someone that I’ll always laugh with

It’s like you’re always stuck in second gear
When it hasn’t been your day, your week, your month, or even your year
but I’ll be there for you
(When the rain starts to pour)
I’ll be there for you
(Like I’ve been there before)
I’ll be there for you
(‘Cause you’re there for me too)

1、S01E01 The One Where Monica Gets a New Roommate
Just divorced Ross and Runaway bride-Rachel were each looking out of their windows, during the rainstorm, with the sadness of leaving the past and the fear of facing the future.
Song：Sky Blue and Black Singer：Jackson Browne Album：I’m Alive

In the calling out to one another of the lovers up and down the strand
In the sound of the waves and the cries of the seagulls circling the sand
In the fragments of the songs carried down the wind from some radio
In the murmuring of the city in the distance ominous and low
I hear the sound of the world where we played
And the far too simple beauty of the promises we made
If you ever need holding, call my name, and I’ll be there
If you ever need holding, and no holding back, and I’ll see you through
Sky blue and black
Where the touch of the lover ends and the soul of the friend begins
There’s a need to be separate and a need to be one and a struggle neither wins
Where you gave me the world I was in and a place I could make a stand
I could never see how you doubted me when I’d let go of you hand
Yeah, and I was much younger then
And I must have thought that I would know if things were going to end
And the heavens were rolling, like a wheel on a track
And our sky was unfolding, and it’ll never fold back
Sky blue and black
And I’d have fought the world for you, if I thought that you wanted me to
Or put aside what was true or untrue, if I’d known thats what you needed
What you needed me to do
But the moment has passed by me now, to have put away my pride
And just come through for you somehow
If you ever need holding, call my name, and I’ll be there
If you ever need holding, and no holding back, I’ll see you through
You’re the color of the sky, reflected in each store-front window pane
You’re the whispering and the sighing of my tires in the rain
You’re the hidden cost and the thing thats lost in everything I do
Yeah and I’ll never stop looking for you
In the sunlight and the shadows and the faces on the avenue
That’s the way love is
That’s the way love is
That’s the way love is
Sky blue and black

2、S01E07 The One With the Blackout
While Ross was out of the balcony fighting the cat which interrupt his confession to Rachel, Monica,Joey, and Phoebe were singing loudly in the living-room surround by candles.
Song：Top of The World Singer：The Carpenters Album：Their Greatest Hits

Such a feelin’s comin’ over me
There is wonder in most everthing I see
Not a cloud in the sky got the sun in my eyes
and I won’t be surprised if it’s a dream
Everything I want the world to be
Is now coming true especially for me
and the reason is clear，it’s because you are here
You’re the nearest thing to heaven that I’ve seen
I’m on the top of the world lookin’ down on creation
and the only explanation I can find
Is the love that I’ve found，ever since you’ve been around
Your love put me at the top of the world
Something in the wind has learned my name
And it’s tellin’ me that things are not the same
In the leaves on the trees and the touch of the breeze
There’s a pleasin’ sense of happiness for me
There is only one wish on my mind
When this day is through I hope that I will find
That tomorrow will be just the same for you and me
All I need will be mine if you are here
I’m on the top of the world lookin’ down on creation
and the only explanation I can find
Is the love that I’ve found，ever since you’ve been around
Your love put me at the top of the world
I’m on the top of the world lookin’ down on creation
and the only explanation I can find
Is the love that I’ve found，ever since you’ve been around
Your love put me at the top of the world

3、S01E09 The One Where Underdog Gets Away
Joey failed on picking up hot chicks unexpectedly, thus he finded out himself on a V.D. poster. Presently, Joey’s V.D. poster overspread the whole city.
Song： Don’t Stand So Close To Me Singer：The Police Album：Zenyatta Mondatta

Young teacher, the subject of schoolgirl fantasy
She wants him so badly , knows what she wants to be
Inside her there’s longing
This girl’s an open page
Book marking – she’s so close now
This girl is half his age
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Her friends are so jealous
You know how bad girls get
Sometimes it’s not so easy
To be the teacher’s pet
Temptation, frustration
So bad it makes him cry
Wet bus stop, she’s waiting
His car is warm and dry
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Loose talk in the classroom
To hurt they try and try
Strong words in the staffroom
The accusations fly
It’s no use, he sees her
He starts to shake and cough
Just like the old man in
That book by Nabokov
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so
4、S01E11 The One With Mrs. Bing
Monica and Phoebe took care of Coma Guy , putting all their expectation of man to him.
Song：My Guy (My God) Singer：Soundtracks Album：Sister Act

Nothing you could say could tear me away from my God, (my God)
Nothing you could do, ’cause I’m stuck like glue to my God, (my God, my God)
I’m sticking to my God like a stamp to a letter,
Like birds of a feather we stick together.
I’m tellin’ you from the start, I can’t be torn apart from my God.

Nothing you could do could make me untrue to my God, (my God)
Nothing you could buy could make me tell a lie to my God, (my God, my God)
I gave my God my word of honour to be faithful, and I’m gonna.
You best be believing I won’t be deceiving my God.

As a matter of opinion I think he’s tops
My opinion is he’s the cream of the crop.
As a matter of taste, to be exact,
He’s my ideal, as a matter of fact.

No muscle bound man could take my hand from my God, (my God)
No handsome face could ever take the place of my God,(my God, my God)
He may not be a movie star, but when it comes to bein’ happy, we are.
There’s not a man today who could take me away from my God.
There’s not a man today who could take me away from my God.
There’s not a man today who could take me away from my God.

5、S01E15 The One With Stoned Guy
Ross fooled around with his pretty colleague in the couch , he was panic by the sudden“Talk dirty to me！”
Song：Girl, You’ll Be A Woman Soon Singer：Neil Diamond Album：Greatest Hits 1966-92

Girl, You’ll Be A Woman Soon

Love you so much, can’t count all the ways
I’d die for you girl, and all they can say is
“he’s not your kind”

They never get tired of puttin’ me down
And I never know when I come around
What I’m gonna find
Don’t let them make up your mind
Don’t you know

Girl, you’ll be a woman soon
Please come take my hand
Girl, you’ll be a woman soon
Soon you’ll need a man

I’ve been misunderstood for all of my life
But what they’re sayin’, girl, just cuts like a knife
“the boy’s no good”

Well, I finally found what I’ve been looking for
But if they get the chance, they’ll end it for sure
Sure they would
Baby, I’ve done all I could
It’s up to you

Girl, you’ll be a woman soon
Please come take my hand
Girl, you’ll be a woman soon
Soon you’ll need a man
6、S01E17 The One With Two Parts, part 2
Ross taked Marcel the monkey to the hospital . Marcel woke up and grasped Ross’s finger , giving him the feeling of being a father.
Song： New York Minute Singer：The Eagles Album：Hell Freezes Over

Harry got up , Dressed all in black
Went down to the station , And he never came back
They found his clothing , Scattered somewhere down the track
And he won’t be down on Wall Street , In the morning
He had a home , The love of a girl
But men get lost sometimes , As years unfold
One day he crossed some line , And he was too much in this world
But I guess it doesn’t matter anymore
In a New York minute , Everything can change
In a New York minute , Things can get pretty strange
In a New York minute , Everything can change
In a New York minute
Lying here in the darkness , I hear the sirens wail
Somebody going to emergency , Somebody’s going to jail
If you find somebody to love in this world , You better hand on tooth and nail
The wolf is always at the door
In a New York minute , Everything can change
In a New York minute , Things can get a little strange
In a New York minute , Everything can change
In a New York minute

And in these days , When darkness falls early
And people rush home to the ones they love
you better take a fool’s advice , and take care of your own
one day they’re here , next day they’re gone

I pulled my coat around my shoulders , and took a walk down through the park
the leaves were falling around me , the groaning city in the gathering dark
on some solitary rock , a desperate lover left his mark,
“baby, I’ve changed. please come back.”
what the head makes cloudy , the heart makes very clear
the days were so much brighter , in the time when she was here
but I know there’s somebody somewhere , make these dark clouds disappear
until that day, I have to believe
I believe, I believe
7、S01E21 The One With the Fake Monica
Ross had to send Marcel to the Zoo. He was so upset when Marcel was taken away.
Song：You’re a Big Boy Now Singer：John Sebastian Album：The Best of John Sebastian

I know there’s things you never thought before
That have to do with walkin’out old doors
You’ve been prepared as long as time allowed
Well I don’t know how , But you’re big boy now
Come on and take a bow , Cause you’re a big boy now

You know the girls are taking notice of you
They say your hair is getting curly too
So Shave today you’ll shave tomorrow as well
You’re run by you and not a class-room bell
Well I don’t know how , But you’re big boy now

And the great big world daddy threw before you
With the pretty faces and the claws that tore you
And it is all so different when you get so source
And love will make you strong as a team of wild horses

I know there’s things you never thought before
That have to do with walkin’out old doors
You’ve been prepared as long as time allowed
Well I don’t know how , But you ‘re a big boy now
And I don’t know how , But you ‘re a big boy now
Come on and take a bow , Cause you’re a big boy now
8、S01E24 The One Where Rachel Finds Out
Rachel finaly decided went for Ross and went to the airport. But to her surprise, Ross came out of the gate with Julie, his new girlfriend.
Song：Take a Bow Singer：Madonna Album：Bedtime Stories

Take a bow, the night is over . This masquerade is getting older
Light are low, the curtains down . There’s no one here
[there’s no one here, there’s no one in the crowd]
Say your lines but do you feel them
Do you mean what you say when there’s no one around [no one around]
Watching you, watching me, one lonely star [one lonely star you don’t know who you are]
I’ve always been in love with you [always with you]
I guess you’ve always known it’s true [you know it’s true]
You took my love for granted, why oh why
The show is over, say good-bye
Say good-bye [bye bye], say good-bye
Make them laugh, it comes so easy
When you get to the part, where you’re breaking my heart [breaking my heart]
Hide behind your smile, all the world loves a clown
[just make ’em smile the whole world loves a clown]
Wish you well, I cannot stay
You deserve an award for the role that you played [role that you played]
No more masquerade, you’re one lonely star [one lonely star and you don’t know who you are]
I’ve always been in love with you [always with you]
I guess you’ve always known it’s true [you know it’s true]
You took my love for granted, why oh why
The show is over, say good-bye . Say good-bye [bye bye], say good-bye
All the world is a stage [world is a stage]
And everyone has their part [has their part]
But how was I to know which way the story’d go
How was I to know you’d break [you’d break, you’d break, you’d break]
You’d break my heart
I’ve always been in love with you [I’ve always been in love with you]
Guess you’ve always known. You took my love for granted, why oh why
The show is over, say good-bye . I’ve always been in love with you [always with you]
I guess you’ve always known it’s true [you know it’s true]
You took my love for granted, why oh why
The show is over, say good-bye
Say good-bye [bye bye], say good-bye
Say good-bye

40天的暑假转眼过去，明天就要开始上课了，实在是意犹未尽
工作四年以来还是第一次，不想开学
假期多数时间，一家三口住在科学城
白天带着丁丁在小区玩，认识了很多新朋友。小家伙很有人缘，几个属猪的宝宝大老远地见到了就张开手臂冲过去相互拥抱，跟见了亲人一样。所以，运动量迅速增加，饭量也随之增加了。晚上阿赖总是尽量不加班赶回家和我们一起吃，晚饭后的时间就是他们爷俩的亲子时段，丁他爸陪他去小区滑滑梯找小朋友玩。而我，趁这仅有的一两小时自由时间上网。八九点“黏妈娇”（由粘鼠胶演变而来）回家，洗澡、看动画片、吃奶、上床、讲故事，睡觉
日子过得太滋润了，真不想回市区
可惜开学了，不能天天和丁丁在一起了

终于，车技已经毛有问题了，而且，开始喜欢开车的感觉
广州市区的路况都能随心所欲，更不用说从Vanke回校的一马平川了
可是……
路盲的严重程度使驾驶乐趣减低了太多
明明跟着阿赖走过无数次的路，自己开还是不认识，只好靠GPS。很快发现一超级严重的问题，GPS点我走黑路，贡献15大元交路桥费，而明明老赖走这段路是不用交钱的啊！
终于能明白那种感觉了：明明长了翅膀，却不能飞……

打电话给老驴朱朱，参考了一堆网文，制定了三日三夜的肇庆游攻略。结果因为某个极其恋家的巨蟹座小屁屁，不得不缩减行程，两夜一日就打道回府了。

    2月8号傍晚抵达肇庆，在推荐度相当高的胜记晚餐，点了招牌菜太爷鸡、西江蚬、烧汁鱼头和炒牛河，共计72元。鱼头煲稍咸，味道还挺不错；除此之外的菜色，相当令人失望。估计是广州的美食养刁了我的味蕾，或者，估计写游记推荐胜记的不是广东人。俺新家对面的源华，其清水鸡若是能打9分，那么胜记的“太爷鸡”至多只能拿5分，算是勉强可以入口而已。至于炒蚬，自家厨房里的出品都更胜一筹。
    晚餐后，带丁丁去牌坊广场看音乐喷泉。不知是攻略出错还是肇庆政府打算节流，音乐喷泉表演只持续了15分钟。应该是只有周末才会表演半小时。对于俺这种老鸟来说，喷泉是不怎么能引起兴致的；但对于丁丁这个小毛毛来说，整个行程最惦记、复述度最高的，就是音乐喷泉啦。十五分钟内，小家伙一直开心地哇哇叫，大声说话唱歌，而我呢一直想着的是，从右手边数起第四第五个喷泉嘴坏了。
    携程上看到和姨的家庭旅馆介绍，预先3天电话联系了。看完喷泉，就开车去鼎湖住宿。途中被GPS耍了一道，走了一条极其泥泞黑咕隆咚的烂路，到鼎湖时，车上已遍布了烂泥团，用丁丁的话来说就是“窗户上好多巴巴哦”。进景区没多久经过一座小桥左转，就到了住的地方。和姨立刻把我们引到水龙头处帮我们洗车，洗了一地的黄泥水。天色很晚了，但还是依稀可以看到旅馆旁边的小溪，呼吸的每一口空气都格外清新。
    2月9日，起床，和姨准备好了早餐：俺的裹蒸棕、阿赖的肠粉、丁丁的小笼包，还有一大锅鲜榨豆浆。吃饭的院子本身就是一景了：小溪流水潺潺树木环绕，吃饭的石桌石凳往下走是浇筑的水泥石台，可以在溪边洗刷，夏天还可以游泳。据和姨介绍，常有呼吸系统欠佳的人到此疗养，一住就是一个月左右，可以买菜回来开伙。
    接着就按攻略出发啦！坐游览车直上蝴蝶谷，乘船到湖心岛，“湖”就是鼎湖的湖啦。是否节假日真的差异很大，整艄船只有我们一家三口，以致介绍景点的美眉都懒洋洋的。看了看还在茧子里的蝴蝶之后，开始了一个小时左右的原始森林探险。这段路上，除了极其陡峭的山路，丁丁都是自己走的，包括很多二三十厘米高的石阶，非常了不起。一边走，一边看瀑布、小溪、蜈蚣、蚂蚁，一边捡树枝，还一边和傻妈妈一起唱山歌。从蝴蝶谷的原始森林探险出来，就到了宝鼎园。宝鼎园斧凿痕迹太重，敲钟、行大运、抛许愿球、穿古装坐战车照相，样样明码实价，反而倒了我的胃口，世界之最的九龙宝鼎也没兴致细看了。丁丁倒是很兴奋，指着鼎足不停地叫“大象！大象腿！”从宝鼎园出来，再坐上游览车去庆云寺。看看表，已经12点半了，径直找奔出名的斋堂而去，下了数百级楼梯才到。此时三个人都又饿又累，只想吃完午餐坐游览车回和姨家睡午觉了。出发前和姨提醒我们，去庆云寺斋堂点10元快餐就好了，套餐168也吃得好不了多少。依计行事，吃的心满意足。10元快餐饭量超大，青菜一份，还有最经典的“鼎湖上素”，味道相当好。（N年前我在韶关南华寺吃过极品斋菜，那次是蹭一厅级干部车边，住持大人亲自接待论法滴。所以算是有发言权的啦。）吃完，又懒又怕爬楼梯的丁妈提了个事后悔恨无比的建议：“不如俺们问问服务员能不能直接从斋堂出去吧？”一问之下，果然可以，大喜。谁知——这一路全是比较陡的山路，离游览车的路线又远，一直走了两个小时。开始的半小时，丁丁还可以坚持。途径被雷电击倒的姻缘树，走到眠绿亭时，丁丁已经开始发火了。这个小家伙其实算比较乖的，但当他不高兴或者不舒服又表达不出来的时候，就会拼命发火，大哭大叫撒赖撒泼。这一次，是又累又睏，加上雪上加霜的阵雨，丁丁和他爸较上劲了。结果在亭子里湿滑的地上摔了一跤，小脑袋“咚”的一声磕在地上，立刻肿起一个大包。这还了得，又委屈又痛，大声嚎哭了数分钟。没办法，只好把哭宝宝放妈妈背上接着走。没几分钟，丁丁就在抽泣中睡着了。我和阿赖已经无心游览观景，只想快些把可怜宝放床上好好睡觉；却找不到捷径，经过飞水潭、避暑山庄一直走到山脚。
    下午4点半睡醒午觉，又开车去牌坊附近了，因为忍不住要补偿丁丁，所以带他去最喜欢的喷泉。六点，在渔乡米坊晚餐，点了南北杏猪肺汤、梅菜肉饼饭、雪菜滑鸡饭和红豆沙麻蓉汤圆，共计42元。吃得非常满意，尤其是梅菜肉饼饭和红豆沙麻蓉汤圆特别地道，最值得一提的是他家的茶，不知道是什么茶，只知道清香四溢，连我这种平时不爱茶的人，都喝得涓滴不剩。
    看完喷泉又回到了鼎湖和姨家。和姨已把我泡了洗衣粉的衣服洗好晾好，房间整理得干干净净了。接下来，还是洗洗睡咯。
    2月9日，起床，和前一天一样的早餐：俺的裹蒸棕、阿赖的肠粉、丁丁的小笼包，还有一大锅鲜榨豆浆。呵呵，接下来就打道回府了。因为在可怜兮兮的丁宝贝整个旅途中第N百次问他妈“我们去哪儿啊？是不是回杨箕地铁站家家啊？”之后，我和阿赖终于集体崩溃。一个半小时的车程，就回到了丁丁不停念叨的“家家”，姥爷欢天喜地地捧着娇娇喵上楼了。

虽然草草结束了，但这次肇庆之行还是值得记下来的。因为这是两岁七个月的赖美男的处子游。同时也让他妈知道了，一年半之内，不推荐再带帅哥出游。还有，强烈推荐和姨的家庭旅馆，预约电话：13679589599。

今天冬至。那么快的，一年又过去了。
今年，过得眼花缭乱，因为事情太多太杂太集中。然而，非常幸运地，一切都很顺利。
年初的期望：January 17, 2009 “希望牛年运气继续这么好，新房子的事宜一切顺利、认证讲师成功、拿到驾照！”
现在看来，是全部达成了。很兴奋。

也正是因为很长的时间都忙得晕头转向，几次更新都是交待近况，也有好久没和朋友聚会聊天了。
这一年，我最爱的朋友也极少更新blog。或许，她们的困难和挫折是我今年唯一的不如意。
再多的快乐要是不能和朋友一起分享，也是寂寞的。
为明年再许下期望吧，但愿能和去年一样，全部实现、无一落空！
希望虎年我们大家的运气都很好很好，健康的工作顺利的dean、健康的宝贝儿、可爱的加菲猫仔！

一日，首次实战练车，就独自一人从科学城开往文明路。途中，在龙洞被一公交车追尾，受震荡后回头一看，一车200人，不敢下车理论，继续开；在天河客运站旁以龟速蹭到一三轮车的屁股，为息事宁人节约时间，赔款200大元；在越秀中路刮伤一路边停车的后视镜后逃窜；全程共用了3小时27分钟，比坐公交遇塞车还慢。
回程途中，自我感觉好了很多，速度也提高很多，尤其出了城上了高速，一度开到70以上。就在这时，最恐怖的事情发生了。当我第三次经过同一个收费站的时候（本来一次也不需要过收费站的），收钱的帅哥终于忍无可忍地开口了：“你是不是迷路了？”
“是！”我诚恳地点头。
“你要去哪里？”
“科学城。”
“那你前行800米后右转，2公里之后再右转就可以了。”
“谢谢你！我的GPS也这样说。”
帅哥瞠目结舌。
通常，故事说到这里，包袱就抖出来了，大伙儿都笑得东倒西歪。可是，我至今不能明白，我的大脑结构是哪里出了问题，明明东西南北都分得清的人，怎么就路盲得那么厉害呢。每次听到GPS里MM那句“你已偏离。现重新规划线路。”就抓狂无比——“我不是按你这*.@#$说的左转了吗？！！！”
路上一直和老公通电话，问他路。两人的对话基本都是这几句：“你现在开到哪儿了？”“不知道。”“周围有什么？”“高速路。”“路牌显示是哪里啊？”“广深高速。”“还有呢？”“我要是知道自己在哪，就不会迷路了。”……后来回家后他说，那时真有种再也见不到我的感觉，很怕我转进宇宙黑洞出不来了。
所以，回程无事故，却同样花了3小时。